Try retrieve jss of date field in graphQL instead of value and render the same using .
Sample graphQL call
query RetrieveNavigationLinksRetDates($itemPath: String = "/sitecore/Content/TestItems") {
folderItem: item(path: $itemPath)
{
children{
dateVal: field(name:"dateVal")
{
jss
}
}
}
}
Sample rendering
<DateField field={child.dateVal.jss} render={(date) => date.toLocaleDateString()} />
The above change will render date like this,